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my story in COMIX.INDIA volume 2 - girl power!
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The drawback of being proactive

Meghana Kulkarni - 15 July, 2010 - 10:06
Two years ago at the flower market at Mehrauli two men on a motorcycle dropped a polythene bag with a tiffin box in it. A young boy picked it up to return it to them. The two men refused to take it and sped away, leaving the boy with the bag, which exploded while in his hand, killing him instantly. And what was the boy's fault? -Being proactive.
Being proactive got him killed.
In the age we live in, how can we be proactive without hurting, not anyone else, but ourself. In our everyday life, a simple gesture, a small comment, a mild reaction or a little good deed is so easily misunderstood. Everyone's on the edge of their seats as if something is about to happen. And at the slightest provocation, we leap out of our skin to be something we were not meant to be.
Lately, I have been getting hurt being proactive. So should I forget myself and be as indifferent to myself and everything? As always, it's not a choice i'm being allowed to make. Everyone else seems to want to make it for me.

The keeper of secrets

Meghana Kulkarni - 27 June, 2010 - 22:37
I can keep secrets to myself very well. Any secret that comes to me stays with me, and the chain ends there. Secrets are fun to keep... but after a while I am burdened and I want to tell someone else but I can't... Because I'm not meant to. They aren't meant to be divulged. Secrets can make or break anyone. Secrets can win someone a war. Secrets can keep relationships from falling apart. Secrets make the keeper eternally powerful. Secrets can keep a lot of people happy...
But most secrets I know are about myself. Isn't life disappointing?

Yoga with the kids...

Meghana Kulkarni - 27 June, 2010 - 11:38
My yoga teacher asked me to join in for a kids yoga class yesterday. I thought it would be fun to work out with kids aged 6 onwards. They have so much energy just waiting to be dispelled! This yoga session is specially for them being extremely fast, taxing and complex!As we sat to pray before we started yoga, almost everyone started getting restless. At that age, no one likes to sit in one place in one position for too long! But even the prayer was much more fun with this batch. Kids have no social inhibitions... no stigmas and no consciousness. They don't hold back. they just do everything to the fullest and their efforts are unrestrained... And when you are with so many kids like that, you become free from within. With unrestrained efforts... no inhibitions. you are just one with the strong energy vibrations surrounding you. And its fun to watch children doing all those yogasans and making it look just too easy. This batch was noisy and funny... where everyone encouraged each other to do what they are told to, there was an air of exigency and excitement. And before I knew it- an hour had passed, and the rigorous regime has culminated with 20 fast cycles of halasan and paschimotanasan back to back, and it was finally time for shavasana for recovery... where no one could close their eyes, or lie still. Not even me! I rolled to the side and got up with the others and went down. We all got onto our bicycles and had a small conversation about them and the accidents we have had... I think I made some friends!Kids are so carefree... so happy. They can forget about their worries and troubles so easily. They ask questions unabashedly, innocently. They don't hide their thoughts. That art is acquired much later in life. Their friendship and companionship is unconditional, unbiased. I realised I was so happy being with them and being like them, that I decided that very instant to attend this class every Saturday evening!

And my latest crazy is:

Meghana Kulkarni - 25 June, 2010 - 18:32
The bright blue big gym ball thats the latest addition to my room! The one I sit, swirl, twirl, twist, bend and bounce on... All that while working! What a way to sit on your butt, yet have fun!

WWDC 2010 Journal, last day

Google Mac Blog - 14 June, 2010 - 11:29
By Mike Morton, Google Mac Team

Google engineer Mike Morton has now made it home after a week of sipping at the firehouse known as Apple WWDC in San Francisco. In today's post, Mike shares his thoughts and observations as the conference winds down — and so do the attendees.

Thursday was a good day. I attended interesting talks, and I got lots of good info from talking to Apple folks in the labs. I left before Friday, the last half-day of the conference.

As the week goes by, some attendees start nodding off in talks. I don’t think that’s a reflection on the speakers, just on the cumulative sleep deprivation of the conference. I’m pretty sure I’ve kept my eyes open the whole time, even though some of the material is review for me, and other stuff is over my head. A lot of the talks on my last day were about making applications efficient on iPhone and iPad. Here, “efficiency” is not just how quickly they respond, but other measurements, too, such as how long they can make the battery last. Battery life weighs on my mind as I try to find a seat next to a power outlet for my laptop. I sometimes feel like Shakey, an early robot whose sole purpose was to find power plugs.

Labs continue to be a great source of info. I met my colleague Paul on the escalator and he excitedly told me that the answer he’d just gotten to one question was worth the whole price of the conference. I wouldn’t go quite that far, but I’m impressed at Apple engineers who are willing to sit down, look at our code, work through questions, and draw diagrams on a whiteboard.

Between talks and labs, there’s non-stop schmoozing. Some of it is totally business-oriented, but much is just chatting and discovering connections. I bumped into two fellow Dartmouth grads. Both attended after my time, but at least they graduated in the same millennium as I did. I also took several breaks just to observe nerd behavior. One scary trend: some people walk around while looking at an iPhone and an iPad at the same time. Miraculously, nobody accidentally walked into a window or escalator.

The famous James Dempsey and the Breakpoints performed this week. I missed it, but here's a shaky video.



So Thursday ended and I walked out to catch my redeye. The end of a conference is always an anticlimax, especially so when you leave early. There ought to be some sort of reminder that we’ve come together once again, and that Apple has gone from just surviving to thriving and changing the world. Apple people have a tremendous sense of history, and love to talk about who worked on what when. We see the past more clearly than the future, but we know the future often echoes the past.

I wound up at SFO in the world’s slowest security line. I removed my belt. Then I lifted my arms to get scanned. Somehow my pants didn’t fall down. Maybe it was that Moscone Center food.

I fell asleep on the plane and woke up as we landed at Logan. The guy next to me was putting away a nose-hair trimmer. Perhaps he was getting ready for FaceTime.

See you next year!

WWDC 2010 Journal, Day 3

Google Mac Blog - 10 June, 2010 - 20:29
By Mike Morton, Google Mac Team

Google engineer Mike Morton eschews sleep (mostly) while attending Apple's WWDC in San Francisco. Here's his account of day 3 in the life of an iDeveloper.

Things are settling into a routine. After dinner, I retreat to my hotel room and wrestle with the wifi to catch up on email and look at tomorrow’s sessions. I worry about which sessions to skip so I can visit scheduled labs and pump Apple engineers for advice. Today I attended four sessions and skipped two. That ratio seemed about right.

Many labs are busy. I waited a long time to ask a couple of questions about Core Data. That’s an Apple technology for storing info, not related to the phylum chordata. After an hour, I gave up. But the busiest lab is the one for User Interface consulting, where you can show your prototype application to Apple UI gurus and get advice. This takes place in private rooms, because prototypes are often secret. Unlike other labs, this one takes reservations, and by early morning they’re booked for the whole day. That must be frustrating for folks who don’t get a slot, but I’m glad that so many people care about the fit and finish of their apps.

Today’s sessions were great…but of course the non-disclosure agreement won't let me tell you about them. During one session, I took frantic notes, emailed them off to my team on the east coast, then got questions back that I asked at a session an hour later. Technology is so useful!



The obligatory power adapter shot

I caught most of a lunchtime talk by Pixar Senior Technologist Michael Johnson about Pixar’s internal software projects. His talk was fast-paced and witty, with a lot of lessons about how to make good in-house software. He mentioned one important deal that happened because of a conversation at WWDC’s annual beer bash. The clear lesson was that beer bashes are an important part of the industry. Just as we always suspected.

In between sessions and labs I caught up with old friends and colleagues. I've been doing this for awhile, and sometimes I get a little behind. I asked one friend about his toddlers, and he showed me a photo of his older daughter in an evening gown. Other parents are fretting about college choices and driver's licenses. It's nice to be reminded that geeks have a life, too.

Some non-geek friends have been in touch by email, curious about what’s going on. They’re especially interested in FaceTime, and other possible uses for the front-facing camera. One friend suggested that it will make a handy mirror. That gives me a great idea for an app: Do I Have Spinach in My Teeth?

Thursday is my last day. I'm taking a redeye home Thursday night. Friday is supposed to be a work day. We’ll see how that goes. And now it's time to start packing.

WWDC 2010 Journal, Day 2

Google Mac Blog - 9 June, 2010 - 23:14
By Mike Morton, Google Mac Team

Google engineer Mike Morton somehow finds time to blog from Apple's Worldwide Developer Conference in San Francisco while also learning, socializing, eating, and occasionally sleeping. Read today's entry for more.

Day 2 had barely begun, and I felt like I’d been here a week. The constant time-juggling is a challenge: attend a session, ask questions in a lab, eat, sleep, work, schmooze? Before heading to Moscone West, I chatted in the hotel lobby with other attendees about the time challenge. One first-timer told me his friends simply suggested he get to as many parties as possible.

I spotted an attendee wearing a “hi, i make macintosh software” t-shirt. I noticed later that “macintosh” is an anagram of “Hm, iOS can’t".

Breakfast at Moscone featured uninspiring food, but inspiring conversation. A friend and I sat at a table with four folks we didn’t know, all with different interests. One was a grad student, doing systems for kids with various disabilities. He asked the accessories engineer if one could build a simple device with just two buttons, for simple apps for his students with motor coordination problems. The accessories guy reached into a bag: “Like this one?”. He showed us Pong running on his iPhone, using the extra hardware to control it!



Last year, the show had a huge display of app icons, each one jiggling each time it was downloaded. This year’s display was different: app icons fell from the top like meteors, one for each download. Popular apps showed their icons over and over. That made it a lot easier to find Google Earth, which I never did spot last year — and Google Mobile seems to be "selling" like hotcakes.



The wifi and cell networks continue to struggle with the load, sometimes failing but usually somewhat usable. Apple staffers did better under load, staying quite pleasant. Some have boring jobs like using a clicker to count attendees entering each session, but they still manage to stay cheerful. I teased one clicker dude: “Don’t you have an app to do that?” He replied he did have a phone app, but that the cheap clicker was easier to use. Low tech sometimes wins.

The Apple Design Awards were noticeably different this year. They didn’t list nominees, but instead just announced each winner. That takes some of the fun out of it, in my humble opinion. More significantly, all the awards were for iPhone or iPad apps — nothing for Mac OS X at all. A bunch of hardworking iPhone developers took home beautiful cubes with a glowing Apple logo and a bunch of hardware, and had their conference costs reimbursed.

As in past years, John Geleynse from Apple demoed each app. This is fun because some apps involve musical skill, artistic ability, game-playing reflexes, and so on. He did pretty well, but joked that the awards committee might be picking apps that he’ll find challenging. And, as in past years, I feel like I should try each of the winning apps, even though there are so many apps, so little time. Perhaps Apple could offer a package deal on the App Store: all the winning apps together, at a discount?

I’m sure the annual Stump The Experts was great [Editor's note: yeah, it was!], but the combined siren song of email backlog and sleep backlog was too great.

WWDC 2010 Journal, Day 1

Google Mac Blog - 8 June, 2010 - 20:16
By Mike Morton, Google Mac Team

Google engineer Mike Morton is doing his annual blogging from Apple's Worldwide Developer Conference in San Francisco. Today we get Mike's insights on WWDC keynote day, with all the fun and reality distortion it brings.

It’s 10 PM Monday. I’ve had six hours sleep in the last 48 hours and am verging on delirium, but it’s a happy kind of delirium. I got a good dose of Reality Distortion today (“a few molecules of Steve Jobs” as one developer said as he settled in for the keynote).

Waiting for the keynote, we got to listen to music, including Satchmo’s Wonderful World, and watch on the big screen as the camera focused on various audience members. Audience folks quickly caught on to the idea that if you put an interesting message on your iPad screen, the camera would find you. The big screen showed iPads saying “This is not a PC”, a New Zealand (I think) flag, “Hi Mom!”, “Free Hugs”, and “Thank you, Steve”. There was one with a job posting for AOL, complete with a Twitter account to contact. Best of all was a set of four iPads spelling W - W - D - C, with the C taking a little extra time to get ready, and the audience cheering when it did. Perhaps presaging the mobile device emphasis of the keynote, one laptop screen just said “MACS TOO!”.

Steve walked on to the usual wild applause and camera frenzy. He looked very thin, but very happy. As he usually does, he began with numbers: the number of developers attending and how many countries they're from (5,200 and 57) and the number of days it took to sell out the conference (8 despite the fact that "this is the biggest place we can get!"). He talked about the iPad working its magic on sales numbers, and the large numbers of iPad-native apps, as opposed to iPhone apps which work on the iPad in a compatibility mode.

You’ve probably read a lot about the keynote already, so here are some moments that stood out for me:

Steve talked about the App Store. He indirectly addressed complaints about apps being rejected or waiting for approval, listing various good reasons that apps have problems, although some in the audience thought the list of reasons provided might be incomplete.

He invited three iPhone developers up to talk about their products: NetFlix, Zynga (the Farmville folks), and Activision, whose Guitar Hero demo was slick. He wrapped up by telling us that the App Store has hit 5 billion downloads, and has paid $1 billion to developers. Carl Sagan would have been right at home with this billions and billions statistic.

Steve quickly moved to introducing iPhone 4. I was impressed by lots of things, especially the promise of apps that use the new gyroscope hardware. There’ll be some great virtual reality and augmented reality apps coming out of that. I was also intrigued by putting cellular, wifi, and other antennas into the metal around the edge of the case. I hope that’ll improve reception.

iMovie for iPhone looks cool, too, although as a cousin to Final Cut, I wish they had called it Final Tap. It could have gone to 11.

And then came the classic “One more thing”: FaceTime video calls. This is going to be huge. It’ll go viral, selling itself, because it’s so noticeable when someone is using it in public. Plus it’ll drive sales of nose-hair trimmers (note to self: invest now).

Steve showed a video of people talking with FaceTime. This included a very moving moment when a soldier saw his baby on ultrasound via FaceTime. Steve said something I’ve heard him say before: "This is one of those moments that reminds us why we do what we do".

The keynote conspicuously lacked any mention of Mac OS X. Apple may be looking toward the “post-PC era” and even hastening it, but let's hope they don't forget “MACS TOO” any time soon.

For the rest of the day, sitting in darkened lecture rooms was proving too much of a challenge for my jet lag, so I left before the last session. As I walked out, I saw an attendee with a t-shirt reading: “AppKit is the new Carbon”. For the non-geek among you, Carbon is an older system that developers used to program the Mac, and AppKit is the current system. You could say this was another way of declaring "MACS TOO!".

WWDC 2010 Journal, Day 0

Google Mac Blog - 8 June, 2010 - 09:19
By Mike Morton, Google Mac Team

As regular readers know, every year, Google engineer Mike Morton becomes intrepid reporter Mike Morton as he ventures to Apple's Worldwide Developer Conference in San Francisco. Except for the contents of Steve Jobs's keynote address, Apple doesn't allow attendees to disclose the technical bits of the conference, so he writes about other important observations and details, such as flights, food, lines, and plans (successful and otherwise). Here's the first part of Mike's 2010 journal.

Summer is here, and that means ice cream, hay fever, swimming in the pond, and — for people who develop Apple software — the annual gathering of the faithful called the Worldwide Developer Conference, known as WWDC to everyone.

I planned a short hop from my New Hampshire home down to Boston’s Logan airport, then to San Francisco just in time to get a few hours of sleep and head to the conference on Monday. Developers want to be in line early for the Steve Jobs keynote, because… well, actually, I don’t know why. We just always do. Some want to sit up front, but good camerawork and big screens throughout the room mean you can see from anywhere.

To my amazement, one die-hard Apple developer emailed me today that he plans to skip the keynote, and instead go eat pancakes and watch the live-blogging. (I won’t name him, because I worry he’ll lose friends over this.) He’s just tired of waiting in long lines. Personally, I enjoy the line. It's a chance to catch up with people, to see and be seen.

As I write this from my transcontinental flight, it’s about 11 PM Pacific Time, and we’re going to land around 1:15 AM. I think that’s 4:15 AM on my biological clock, which is the time I normally wake up. We’ll see how much sleep I get when I check in to the hotel.

One big discussion point this year: some Mac engineers have grumbled that Apple’s schedule of sessions seems tilted toward iPhone and iPad — and away from Mac OS X. Me, I see at least two sessions I want to attend in nearly every time slot, so I’m happy, no matter what the overall emphasis.

Time to see if I can catch some sleep before we land.

Google Chrome for Mac: Ready, beta, now stable!

Google Mac Blog - 25 May, 2010 - 21:31
In the past five months, we’ve counted lines of code, given thanks in Lego, and even waxed poetic -- but most importantly, we’ve been working hard on bringing Google Chrome for Mac from its initial beta to the stable channel.

Today, I’m happy to announce that Google Chrome for Mac is being promoted out of beta to our stable channel. We believe that it provides not only the stability, performance and polish that every Mac user expects, but also a seamless native Mac application experience that Mac users will feel instantly at home with.


(First dev, then beta, now stable! Many thanks to Christoph Niemann)

Just like its Windows and Linux siblings, the stable version of Chrome for Mac comes with all the goodness of one of our biggest speed improvements to date. We’ve worked to make Chrome for Mac fast, fully-featured and extensible - with access to more than 4,500 extensions in the gallery. Some of Chrome for Mac’s most-requested features are now available, including full-screen mode (just hit Command + Shift + F!), easy and powerful bookmark management, as well as the ability to synchronize not only bookmarks, but also browser preferences across computers.

For those of you already on the beta channel, you’ll be auto-updated to the stable channel soon - or, if you don’t want to wait, you can download the stable version of Chrome for Mac today. If you later decide that you’d like to return to the beta channel to experience new, experimental features and improvements, you can always find the link back to the beta channel on google.com/chrome.

Posted by Mike Smith, Product Manager, Google Chrome Team

Google I/O: live keynote streams

Google Mac Blog - 18 May, 2010 - 20:52
By Greg Robbins, Software Engineer

Google I/O, which starts tomorrow, is our annual conference to help developers learn about the latest ways their applications can work with Google services. If you develop applications or just are enthusiastic about using applications that interact with your Google account, you can learn the highlights of this year’s announcements by watching the live keynote streams. See the Google Code blog for more details.

New Google Chrome beta: speedy!

Google Mac Blog - 5 May, 2010 - 23:56
By Scott Knaster, Google Mac Team
There's a new beta of Google Chrome, and it's very, very fast. Check out this post over at the Google Chrome Blog for details. And if you haven't used Chrome on your Mac, why not give it a try? You can download it here.

SSB Pinhole camera version 2

Meghana Kulkarni - 27 April, 2010 - 11:42

Presenting the new and improved Sweet Shot Box (SSB) pinhole camera.

my experiments with intuitive and improvised cooking - II

Meghana Kulkarni - 14 April, 2010 - 16:17

The making of the seasonal Panha and easy raw mango pickle :)
For the last few days, every time I looked out of the window, I saw lovely green raw mangoes dangling from a mango tree. Todays I finally decided to pluck out a few and make panha. Panha or 'aam panna' is a seasonal drink prepared with the pulp of raw mangoes. So here's what I did:
1. Looked out of my window every day to see green mangoes

2. Plucked a few3. Washed them and soaked them in water for 15 mins
4. Kept one raw mango aside for some quick fix pickle.5. Put them in a pressure cooker.

6. Pressure cooked the raw mangoes
7. Let the raw mangoes cool down.
8. chopped the one raw mango kept aside
9. Added some salt and a bit of sugar and some chilly powder and mixed well.
10. Heated a bit of oil and gave it a tadka of mustard seeds and turmeric powder.
11. Kept the pickle aside.12. Separated the peels and the seeds from the cooked mango pulp. and mix it with water it was cooked in.
13. Added jaggery (gud/gur/gul) for sweetness
14. Mixed it all up... and let the jaggery melt. Then mixed it again after a while.
15. Took some of this concentrate and mixed it with cold water. Garnished it with a tulsi leaf, and it tasted wonderful!
Enjoy :)

Sampa is closing: Thank you for supporting us!

Karen Burley - 17 July, 2009 - 23:54

Sampa is closing its service on August 18, 2009. Like  many startups, we tried to change the world but didn't succeed. We tried to make it easy for people to share personal stories and pictures with friends and family, and although the product worked and we amassed tens of thousands of happy customers we weren't able to pay the bills to keep the service running.

 

We feel bad for all the people we disappointed, from our avid customers to our investors, including our families that have actively used the service themselves and supported us during this journey.

 

If you have a Sampa site, you can export it by signing in and click on the Export Site button. It will include all the important content from your site (blog posts, pictures, family tree, etc.) If you paid for a Premium or Ultimate account and you are eligible for a refund, you'll receive an email shortly.

 

 

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Can I import into another blog or service?
Some service provide importing tools, but we can’t guarantee it will work or not. Sampa will not provide support with other services.

 

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If you want a baby site we recommend you  use TotSites.com. If you want a family site you can use Cozi. If you just want a blog you can use Wordpress.

 

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Can I get a refund for the amount I paid?
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Can I keep my custom domain?
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Living Proof

Karen Burley - 24 June, 2009 - 20:34
Living ProofDirector: Dan IrelandActors: Harry Connick Jr; John Benjamin HickeyMore Info
My Rating: 

Just picked up this movie on a whim, attracted by the words "based on a true story" on the dustcover. I'm so glad I did. It's the story of Dr. Dennis Slamon's efforts to bring a new breast cancer treatment "Her-2" or Herceptin, to market. It took 12 years and met many, many obstacles.

 

I learned a lot about cancer, specifically breast cancer, but at all times was fully engaged in the movie. It follows a handful of the women involved in the three stages of clinical trials. Some survived, some didn't, but it was clear that they would do whatever it took to stay alive and that their personal struggle effected so many other lives around them.

 

The other fact I learned that Dr. Slamon's drug would not have been possible without the philanthropic efforts of Lilly Tartifkoff (wife of NBC television executive Brandon Tartikoff, who died of cancer) and Ron Perelman (yes, the once-richest man in the world who headed Revlon and is not well-liked due to his business dealings). Revlon's support of funding for breast cancer research was critical in raising the tens of millions of dollars needed to get a new drug to market.

 

I strongly recommend this movie. You will get engaged in the lives of these people, learn a lot, and you will see how the persistent efforts of one man has resulted in hundreds of thousands of women being alived today because of him.


The Power of Focus

Karen Burley - 8 June, 2009 - 05:46
"Focus" is an interesting thing. A couple of years ago there was a flurry around The Secret, mostly because it was profiled on Oprah. The premise behind the secret is the Law of Attraction, which means that what you focus on causes the object of focus to come into your life. Your focus acts like a magnet. This is really an illusion, of course. What it really means is that when you decide to focus on something, to focus on attracting more of something into your life, then the natural filters we all use to deal with information overload are  changed and now you have a filter that lets more of the things you are focusing on into your life.

I have a perfect example of a filter. When I became pregnant for the first time, I was shocked at how many *other* women were also pregnant. Everywhere I turned I saw pregnant women. I asked my husband "Where did all these pregnant women come from? Are we in the mist of another baby boom?" He just laughed and said "They were always there. You just never noticed them before." And he was right, my filter was on my career and I tuned out a lot of other distractions. But once I decided to have a baby, I turned on a big filter that caused me to pay attention to others in my condition.

As a manager of people, I see this all the time. I have one person who focuses on the constraints, which are all the little obstacles that prevent him from achieving his goals. And you know what? He seems to have *a lot* of constraints, and this frustrates him. I have another person who focuses on the opportunities. He sees opportunities all the time, and see a lot fewer constraints. They both accomplish about the same, though the opportunity seeker is a lot more satisfied with his job.

My advice is to become aware of your focus. Since you will definitely veer toward what you focus on, learn to train your focus on the things that truly matter to you.

A Well-Spent Life

Karen Burley - 7 June, 2009 - 10:33
What is the measure of a life well spent? I have been thinking about this recently after viewing the film "49 Up". Certainly one of the metrics would be relationships. Did you engage deeply with others? Did you make a difference in others' lives? Did you build your own family with spouse and children? How many people can truly call you friend (not just the Facebook type)?

Another metric would be achievement. Did you set goals for yourself and did you achieve them? Even if your goals evolved and changed over time, do you feel proud as you look at what you've accomplished thus far? Would these achievements, if given as part of your eulogy, make you feel that your life had meaning and that you made a difference in some way?

A third metric would be happiness. Are you enjoying the journey? Have you figured out yet that money is not the key to happiness? The happiest people are not rich in dollars, but they certainly are rich in spirit. Do you spread happiness too? Do you know by now what makes you happy? Have you developed the tools that allow you to change your mood away from the upset-of-the-moment and toward happiness? Have you noticed that happiness and gratitude seem to go hand-in-hand?

A fourth metric is integrity. Are you honest and reliable? Can people trust you will do what you say you will do? Are you authentic? Will you do the right thing even if no one is looking? If so, I believe you will be in the minority, which is a sad commentary on modern life. 

I am sure there are other metrics of a well-spent life, but these four loomed large for me as I thought about living a well-spent life. What life metrics have meaning for you?

49 Up

Karen Burley - 5 June, 2009 - 19:30

I recently viewed the documentary "49 Up", the seventh installment in the "7 Up" series. While I had heard about the "7 Up" series  many years ago, I had never seen it until now. Acclaimed director Michael Apted follows 14 children, born in England in 1956, from different backgrounds, and interviews them about their lives every 7 years. It appears that the premise to the series is the differences of class makes on one's life, which was very significant in 1963. What we find over the years is different and more important.

 

This is the ultimate reality show. It does not appear that editing was done to slant anyone's comments - if this was done, that individual would refuse to participate in the future. It is amazing that 13 out of 14 people continue to participate. I wonder what it feels like to be one of those people, knowing that their lives are on display and available to compare and contrast with a dozen other people, most of whom they do not know. For the most part, few seemed to see the significant history they are part of though one person does comment that being in these films will probably be the most important thing they will accomplish in their life.

 

Here are some of the take-aways, from my perspective:

- While the initial premise is that class is going to make a big difference in their lives, the series chronicles the lessening importance of class in England during this time period. The main impact of class is that children from lower classes could not predict what the future held and most did not go to college. The children from the upper classes could predict precisely where they would go to college (presumably as dictated by their parents) and most did follow through on their parents' plans. After that, the impact of class appeared to mostly disappear.

 

- The thirties were a time of trial for most: struggles in their marriages, divorce, with children, trying to find their place in the world. But by the age of 49 most seemed happier, more at peace and "comfortable in their own skin." I'd read numerous times that people who were older (50+) were happier than people in their 20's and it always seemed impossible to me, but here is living proof unfolding before us.

 

- Most chose more traditional paths eventually. The missionary teacher eventually became a traditional teacher in his home country. The wanderer eventually found a place in civil service in his home country.

 

- At age 49, most saw the value of family, even though many said it was not for them at age 14 or 21. One comment was if you don't have a family, you miss out on life.

- Most became more guarded in their comments as they aged. At one extreme is Andrew, who says "I've become guarded about being guarded." The exuberance of 7, 14, and 21 mostly disappears as each person grows older, except for Tony. If you see nothing else, the piece on Tony is priceless and uplifting. He is so full of the joy of life even though his life has not been particularly special. His specialness comes from within.

 

A boxed set of all seven films in the series is now available. On the "49 Up" DVD, Roger Ebert interviews the director and says he's heard from people who have watched all seven films, one after the other, in a 24-hour period and found it to be an amazing life-changing experience. While I do not recommend doing that, I do recommend you look into this series as it is truly a unique experience of our lifetimes.


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